Message from Bob Vickrey
In Memoriam:
Dick, I just received the news that our one of our beloved "founding fathers" has passed on. As you well know Bob McNutt was particularly near and dear to me and I join many others that are surely saddened by his passing.
I would share one poignant moment that, for me, defined not only my relationship with Bob and the recovery community, but also Bob's absolute commitment to leaving this world a better place than he found it. On a rather chilly day in March of 1979, Bob made the then long-distance journey with family, friends, and staff up to Harris Springs Ranch on Mt. Charleston to officiate what would become a tradition now close to 30 years in the making. Four individuals, including myself, had completed the requirements of a two year commitment required by WestCare in order to receive a "diploma" of "graduation". For all of us it meant quite literally a new "lease" on life. For at least one of the group it meant that a prison sentence was averted. I know for me it meant that and more. I now had the privilege to return to my chosen profession and hold an unrestricted license to work in the gaming industry. It also meant that I, being drug free, could pursue all those ideals that previously had been unattainable. The list is much too long to recount here, but included higher education, a loving family, a successful career, and community service. All of which I enjoy today and which was symbolically sealed with that warm and spirited handshake from an even more warm and spirited individual.
Over the years, I shared a very special kinship with Bob. Upon meeting at a typical board meeting or WestCare function, Bob would give me an enormous hug and simply tell me how proud he was of my accomplishments. For some reason that affirmation coming from Bob meant more to me than the entire diploma's in the world. But even more than this, I will always remember that distinct "twinkle" in Bob's eyes and sometimes the tear or two that would appear in both of our eyes. These were tears of gratitude. You see Bob and I both knew all too well the transformation that had taken place, which the ceremony at Harris Springs Ranch, had merely accentuated. The rescue of a life in crisis and the return of a healthy and whole person fully capable of walking with purpose in this life. Of course there have been many teachers along the path. Yet Bob was that special human being, which upon meeting, leaves an indelible mark on our spirit, requiring only that we pass it freely on to others. And for this I will be eternally grateful.
Bob Vickrey
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